I've liked this boy for a very long time, there's definitely attraction and a connection between us as we always end up kissing and spending most of the night (when at parties) with each other. However, if im honest, i don't know much about him and there can be slight awkwardness between us - how can i stop this and have a decent and happy conversation with him?How to stop awkwardness? Or get to know someone better?
Its easy - tell him how you feel! u sound good together and seem to work, tel him you want to be more serious, that's all u can do - the very best of luck to you both.How to stop awkwardness? Or get to know someone better?
Okay, well there are alot of ways to stop awkwardness.
i have been in your situation so many times. it was always awkward with plenty of guys i tried talking to, but it seemed like we could always talk about sex, but anything else it would just like be awkward.
you DONT want to question them about there life.
he probally hates going to the docter filling out them sheets they give you that are a whole life time long, and he doesnt want to have to deal with anymore questions asked one after another.
maybe it would be better, if you just like went out together, and without like kissing at letting it lead to other things, just sit there and talk.
DONT ask him how he is, because that just makes everything so so awkward. its okay every now and then but to like someone you see often.
thats a big big no no.
if you havent ever asked someone hwo they are, it always leads into some awkward situation.
sometimes though, the person isnt just right for you.
if you cant come up with something to say, then i dont guess that person is for you. i searched for someone that i wasnt awkward around and i finally found him. and it was never awkward around him.
i guess it also depends on like how you are. if your outgoing or shy.
im outgoing so its always easy for me;. but if your shy and you really like this guy, let him know you like him and you would like to talk more and hangout more, the more you get use to the person, the less awkward itll be sweetie.
(:
im sorry if i didnt help. i probally just blabberd.
but maybe i helped a little.
goood luck (:
Knowing fully well how you loved him gives you the needed confidence to talk things up to him. Most of the problem we always have in relationship is not being able to talk and listen to each other. You can plan recreational activity or sort it out on special day like birthday, remembering the date you both met for the first time as per celebrating it, Long walk on beach etc.,Please, remember not to be cautious of winning him at all cost. Be simple but courageous to attain your goal. Try as much as possible to subside any possible argument. If any (argument) crops up divert the topic and come back to it later. Be playful but be focus. Remember you always your goal. Surely, it will work out.
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